Scream With Pleasure!
Knowing the best blow job techniques to bring your man into a state of
orgasmic bliss is vital if you want to make him utterly addicted to you…or any
man for that matter.
That’s what this chapter of the Blow Job Guide is all about, teaching you best
of my most powerful blow job techniques.
Lick, Lick, Lick It
Licking his penis is a powerful blow job technique for beginning your blow job.
It serves as a sort of oral sex foreplay that will build sexual tension and have
him begging you to take him in your mouth…which is exactly what you want.
Licking his cock is super easy. At it’s simplest, you just need to hold his penis
in your hands and use your tongue to lick it. You’ll find that licking him from
the base to the tip works really well. But don’t stop here, there are a bunch of
other licking techniques that you can use during your blow job:
Focus on the Tip – According to one study, the top part or glans of your
man’s penis is the most sensitive part, specifically the underside of his glans,
but if your man is circumcised then it will be slightly less sensitive. The bottom
side, where the head connects to his shaft, is known as the frenulum and is
also incredibly sensitive. Although, some studies find that the whole glans is
sensitive with no one part more sensitive than the other
Try focusing on licking the tip of his penis (the glans) using the least amount
of pressure possible. Many guys report this being their absolute favorite blow
job technique. You can even try doing this for your entire blow job until he
comes. More on oral pleasuring the tip of his penis.
The Topside of your Tongue – The top side of your tongue provides
slightly more stimulation than the underside thanks to the rough surface your
taste buds create. So focus on using the top side of your tongue when licking
him.
His Balls – Don’t forget about his balls. His balls are as sensitive as his penis,
and for some guys, even more sensitive. You can simply lick them, but I
describe many other ways to stimulate his balls for maximum pleasure here.
Anilingus – There are two other excellent locations besides his penis and
balls that can massively add to his pleasure and make him see you as an oral
sex goddess even if they are not strictly part of a regular BJ.
His perineum or perineal raphe aka his taint, the rough patch of skin located
just behind his balls as well as his anus contain a lot of nerve endings. The root
of his penis lies beneath this skin, behind the perineum, so you can stimulate
it through his perineum. Some guys adore having these two areas licked and
stimulated while others don’t like it at all. It’s a personal preference, and it all
depends on your man.
Tonguing these areas, up and down, or in a circular motion is an awesome way
to stimulate them. You can even press your tongue inwards on his anus to
provide a different, but still pleasurable sensation. This technique is
called anilingus.
Taint-To-Tip – A technique that works great if your man has a sensitive
perineum (taint) or balls is to slowly lick him from his perineum all the way to
the tip of his penis. Doing this in one slow, continuous lick is best.
You’ll also find that it’s easiest to do when you use your hand or just a finger to
press his penis against his belly.
One vital blow job technique to keep in mind when licking his dick during a
blow job is that:
Wetter Is Better
Ask any guy, and they will tell you the same thing: Super wet blow jobs feel
best. Ideally, you will easily be able to produce lots of saliva on command, but
that’s not always easy.
Two tricks to producing more saliva are:
Chewing gum right before going down on him.
Eating a piece of juicy fruit before you start blowing him (like a
strawberry or pineapple or peach).
Of course, these two tricks aren’t always practical.
A much easier and more reliable way to make your blow jobs super-wet is to
use edible lube. Just keep some handy in a drawer beside your bed or in your
purse.
This also means that you will have lube handy in case you need some for sex.
Discover everything you need to know about lube.
Deep Throating Solution – One quick way to produce lots of saliva is to
deep throat your man. Here’s why it works:
When his penis touches the back of your throat, it will stimulate your gag
reflex. This triggers your body to quickly produce lots of saliva. So, if you both
enjoy deep throat, this is the perfect technique to give your man a wet, sloppy
blow job. More on deep throating in Chapter 7.
Just The Tip
As I mentioned earlier, the tip of your man’s penis (the glans) is by far the
most sensitive spot on his penis, particularly the underside. The female
equivalent of the penis is the clitoris. So focusing your attention on the tip of
his penis is going to work well to push him over the edge in the most intense
and pleasurable way possible.
There are a number of different techniques you can use to pleasure the tip of
his penis.
Kissing – Kissing the tip of his penis is a fabulous technique to start off your
blow job and draw out the length of it…perfect if you like seeing and hearing
your man squirm in beautiful agony. Kissing his penis and balls is easy, just
think back to how you kiss him normally (on the lips)…
Purse your lips together and give him small “pecks.”
Open your lips slightly so that you can gently squeeze the tip of his penis
between them.
With saliva on your lips, gently run them over his penis.
Use your lips to gently suck on the top of his penis.
The Twister – Using your tongue and lots of saliva, you can perform an
ultra-pleasurable and satisfying blow job technique I like to call the Twister.
While holding his penis steady in one or both hands, start making a slow
circular motion with your tongue around the top of his penis. You can
alternate direction and speed to add some variety, but this blissful bj
technique alone is enough to bring him to a thundering climax.
Deep Throat – Deep throating your man is a more advanced blow job
technique, but when done right, it can deeply gratify and sexually satisfy your
man. This extra pleasure is thanks to the back of your throat. As you take him
deep into your mouth, eventually, your tonsils and the back of your throat will
come into contact with the tip of his penis.
The slight spasming of your throat (thanks to your gag reflex) will make it
more enjoyable and stimulating for your man, along with the fact that the rest
of your mouth and tongue will be stimulating the shaft of his dick. You
can learn more about deep throating your man here in Chapter 7 of the Blow
Job Guide.
The Tip Of The Tip – Some guys have sensitive urethral openings. That’s
the small slit at the very top of his penis where his cum comes out of. Try
gently licking it when giving him a blow job and judge his reaction. If he
enjoys it, then he’s one of those guys who enjoys it. If he doesn’t, then just
move on to another technique.
Slip Inside – A less advanced fellatio technique that is almost as effective at
providing him with intense delight and stimulation as deep throating him is
using the inside of your mouth. By taking him into your mouth and
pressing/rubbing the tip of his penis against the inside of your cheek and
tongue, you have another tool for your blow job arsenal.
Use The Roof – Carrying on from the previous technique, there’s another
option for stimulating him: the roof of your mouth. While you might not think
it can help you when giving him a blow job, you’d be wrong.
The texture feels great when you angle his penis so that the top of his glans
moves against the ridges on the roof of your mouth. If the size of his penis and
your mouth don’t allow you to change angles or would mean he gets scraped
with teeth, then you should probably avoid this technique.
Fingers & Hands – Using your fingers and hands is not strictly a blow job
technique. However, using them is a great way to give your mouth and jaw a
break. With plenty of saliva or lube, try gently running your fingers over and
back the top of his penis and listen as he uncontrollably groans in pleasure.
You can learn more handjob techniques to give your man from the in-depth
Hand Job Guide here.
The Up & Down
Almost all guys fantasize about getting a blow job, 87.6% to exact, but if you’re
not feeling particularly confident the first few times you try it, then my advice
is to stick to the easy-to-perform blow job techniques like the Up & Down.
Mastering this first is a smart way to get comfortable giving your boyfriend a
blow job before progressing to more advanced techniques and tactics for
giving him oral pleasure like sucking him (tips on sucking him off like a
pornstar here).
To perform the Up & Down, you simply need to take your man’s penis into
your mouth and make a tight “O” shape with your mouth around his penis.
This “O” shape means that you can apply pressure around his entire penis.
Next, you are simply going to bob your head up and down, taking his penis in
and out of your mouth. Bobbing your head up and down is super simple to
start with, especially if you just concentrate on the top inch or two of his penis.
As you get comfortable with this, try taking him deeper and deeper with each
stroke so that you can stimulate more and more of his penis.
Taking him deeper and deeper into your mouth runs the risk of triggering your
gag reflex [9]. Try not to worry about this. It’s entirely natural, and most men
don’t really care if you gag a little.
Note: There is a ridge on his penis, where his head joins the shaft. This ridge
is particularly sensitive for your man when stimulated. Try focusing on it with
your lips when you make the “O” shape.
Focusing on this part of his penis also means that you are only taking the first
1-2 inches of his penis into your mouth, making gagging less likely. If you feel
yourself getting close to gagging, it’s okay to pause, breathe, and relax your
throat.
